LOVE Learnt 


I hate complicated life, so I had avoided and overlooked so many things that could affect the kind of state of mind I wanted for myself. In my mind I had thought love is a very easy thing until something happened recently.

It was Dad’s 60th, so I mentioned it to boss because I had to take one of his lenses. Then he said, “why don’t we organise a portrait session for him instead?” Wow! That would be nice, I muttered and that was it. I gladly informed the subject the next day and even made suggestion on attires to wear.

But few minutes later, something terrible (that is what I termed it) happened that I could not even forget in days. I was so pissed that I wished i would not have the photo session again, he does not deserve it anymore.

“How can he utter such words? How would he, instead of taking responsibility, push blame on me? Is it because I am still here?…. I boiled. Quickly I went into my room, scribbled on a paper some words to counter what he said and placed it on the wall. My face wore the anger, I would not even bulge talking at anyone that steps on my toes afterwards, I apparently could not suppress or overlook this as I previously would. I resorted to asking God to help me because as my mood was, I was going to cancel the photoshoot ifo boss was not aware in the first instance.

I took my bible to read afterwards and it was love I was reading about. I took a deep sigh, What have I been doing to myself? I was not totally calm still until I got to Church the next day.

Everything that was said in church that very day revolved around Love. This again! Then I was reminded that love is a command, not an admonition and the test of Love (in its real sense) is when its not reciprocated. Ofcourse I knew this before now, but I lost it at the point of hurt and anger, I wondered what it would have been like at Jesus’ time of hurt and pain. His was the height of it, death. I gathered myself together and decided not to talk or think about it anymore, the more I did, it keeps escalated in my mind. I was done and back to my normal self.

The day of the shoot came and we all had a nice time. I particularly did because of first, what I had gone through, and secondly, what unique thing I achieved that day, “bond.” Its been a while!

And then I appreciated photography more. The atmosphere it created was premium for me. This is more like what I love to do, putting smiles on people’s face, enhancing family bond, bringing out the real you.

Photography is Love. I love “Love,” I love “Photography.” It takes selflessness and patience to master both.

My name is Mosopefoluwa.

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Becoming a Photography Mentor’s Inspiration


“You must be proud of all the amount of photographers you’ve trained by now,” the lady in red asked me. Bimbo was a 2010 graduate of eloPhotos Academy and would eventually turn out to be one of the few that kept in touch with me even after leaving eloPhotos. Though the transition out of eloPhotos wasn’t a smooth one (I actually “fired” her), she had grown into someone that would eventually inspire me and believe in my dream enough to empty her savings of N330k to invest in Nigeria Photography Expo & Conference (NiPHEC). She was at my office recently to express her concern about the fact that I wasn’t as rich as someone who had invested so much in the dreams of others.

“Actually, I’m not proud. I’ve since lost count of the number of people I’ve trained because many of them seem not to be putting into practice what they learnt at eloPhotos.” That was my blunt response. She would be one of the 30% that seemed to be standing out of the 100% eloPhotos Academy Alumni.

I explained to her that never in my entire life have I been clearer about my calling in life: to be a change catalyst in the photography industry. I explained to her that though I might not have gotten my dream 2012 BMW 540i Active Hybrid car yet, I feel like the diamond miner that is 2 inches from hitting the biggest gusher he had ever seen. I explained to her that despite her concern for the debts I owe, I would eventually come out better and richer like the latter days of the biblical Job.

But my greatest fear is for the many graduates of the Academy that do not practice the tenets we preach: INTEGRITY, PROFESSIONALISM, CREATIVITY, EXCELLENCE & TIMELINESS. My greatest fear is for the many graduates of Harvard University that are only proud of the certificates they got but aren’t doing much societal transformation with the education.

Until I can boast of a significant number of protégés that inspire me by standing out of the crowd of ordinary photographers, until I can boast of an industry void of mediocrity and people willing to sacrifice their integrity just for the next morsel of bread they eat, until I can boast of a society where photographers would be invited to key economical summits to discuss ways of combating unemployment in the society, until I can boast of photography being on the same pedestal with Law & Medicine, until then, my pride can wait.

If you (yes, YOU) happen to know who I really am and where I’m going in life, you’ll consider it a privilege to call me a friend or photography mentor. Sometimes my advice and/or admonition might come across as too strict or mean, it is so that we’ll turn out to be an inspiration to someone at the end of the day. Although I might be an inspiration, mentor or coach to many, my soul would not be fulfilled until those that consider me to be an inspiration turn out to inspire me by becoming shining stars in their field. Until then, I can’t afford to be proud. Until then, I will not rest.
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